single--woes

Just read URBAN--V day issue dated 8th Feb and I am in my whiney-about-singlehood mood again.

ST Life! bachelor-writers shared their love lives (or rather the lack of it). And it's kinda comforting to know we are not alone ;) and I enjoy reading Jeremy Au Yong's "Straight Talk" column on Mondays ST. I find myself giggling to myself after reading :) I agree with him dat guys have this "girlfriend voice" when they talk to their loved one, and please don't believe there is platonic friendship between str8 guys n gals.

Well well, another year is here again. The hits and misses, the grouches, the bouts of loneliness.

Then in contrast, the stories of blissfully married couples in the same issue.
It kinda gives me hope again!

Dating is really a tiresome and never-ending game the pro-active is willing play, yet we can't expect to find the RIGHT person waiting at our doorsteps if we just hang ard at home. In my life, men come n go. There are many singletons ard me, some are enjoying it, some guys don't want relationships, and some girls, like myself, are secretly getting anxious, fearing the big THREE ZERO-"expiry date" and bio-clock tickling away for motherhood.

I think no one would choose singlehood given a choice. We are all humans who like to give and receive love. It is really about timing n the quality of the pple u meet. And most importantly, the attraction, also coined as "chemistry" or "feel". Somehow, it also all boils down to luck I feel, some are just blessed in this department.

I cannot tell when will I end this singlehood, but I know it is painful if one's admiration is unrequited.

Hmmmm... unabashedly, I am going for my first tarot reading session tmr. On one hand, I am afraid of hearing negative responses from the guru, on the other, I still hold +hope in 2007. (Hey, May & Choy believes in Feng Shui for better 桃花 luck, so I am not the only "superstituous" bachelorette ard :P )

V-day, another day to celebrate singlehood OR I prefer to snuggle at home to be on MSN chats with pals and watching my current addicted drama serial. When will I receive my rose?

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On Last Note:
to Sheryl, Joanne & gals/boys,

Good luck to O results today :)